Seven Christians are sitting around a table at a church banquet to honor an elder and his wife for their long tenure of service to the church, when one of the dear older sisters, walking by the table with a plate of food, a dessert, and a glass of sweet tea, stumbles. As the woman falls to the ground, the tea and the food fly through the air onto the elder and his wife, and the woman bursts into tears before everyone

  • P – Immediately the prophet speaks the truth that she should not have been carrying two plates and the tea at the same time, and that someone should have helped her see this and helped her. (Motivation: to correct.)
  • M – The gifted mercy- shower drops to one knee, holds on to the hand of the woman, and says, “Are you hurt? Don’t worry about it. I knocked over a punch bowl once.” (Motivation: How can I relieve her pain and embarrassment?)
  • E – The person with the gift of exhortation says to the woman, ”Are you able to stand up? Let me help you.” (Motivation: to come alongside and encourage.)
  • L – The leader goes to the microphone and says, “Bob, would you get some towels? Barbara, would you please bring our dear sister another plate of food and some chocolate cream pie? And Jane, could we get a new tablecloth for this table as soon as possible? Thank you, Joe for helping her up. Folks, we’ll be ready to go in just a few minutes. Thank you everyone.” (Motivation: to lay out a reasonable plan and follow through with it for the good of the whole.)
  • S – The servant receives the towels from Bob, cleans up the couple and the floor, and helps put another tablecloth on the table. (Motivation: to fulfill a need.)
  • T – Sitting on the other side of the table is the teacher, who makes an absolute observation, “Actually this isn’t what it appears. Rather, the kind of heels our dear sister was wearing catches on the residential-grade carpet and causes stumbling to occur. We need industrial carpet. Do you all understand that?” (Motivation: to discover why it happened and make sure all know about it.)
  • G – The giver, seeing the tea stained jacket on the elder, says, “Brother, we still want you to say a few words, so here’s my jacket.” And hearing the reasoning of the teacher, says, “We’ve needed to replace this carpet for a while anyway; why don’t I just make sure the money is here to pay for it?” (Motivation: give to relieve a need.)
  • Original author:  Chip Ingram

Matt Thomas

Pickerington, OH

Matt Thomas has done a great deal of research in spiritual gifts and has spoken at the 2nd annual CIC and will be speaking again in 2019.